Engagement and the FGQ
We engage in what we feel good about.
Agree? Disagree?
A manager's job doesn't include seeing that her employees feel good about what they do. After all, we call it work. Not play, not recess, not funtime. Right?
But suppose this: the manager who--spending not a lot of time, energy, or stressful effort--provides "feel-good potentiators" for employees, increases their engagement potential.
Agree? Disagree?
I'm betting that you agree with both:
- The better we feel about what we do, the more it engages us.
- The more chances we have to feel good, the more we seize them and so the more we engage.
Increase your people's Feel Good Quotient (FGQ) and you increase their engagement. (We already know why that's good. If not, check the list of posts at the left. Dig in!)
So I offer three easy, low-effort suggestions any manager can use. The purpose is to generate feel-good opportunities.
- Agend-ize Sharing. Start or finish every meeting you have among your staff with a two-minute share. Here's all you have to do:
- Have them pair off or form triads.
- Invite them to think of a time in the past few weeks or months when they experienced success, were scared, learned something new, made a mistake, had a good time....
- Engage them in recalling what led to the experience.
- Encourage them to recollect emotions the experience created.
- Request that they condense their memory into a brief sentence expressing only the experience and the emotion. (I felt good when I taught my granddaughter to tie her shoes.)
- Members then share their brief statements and make simple, accepting responses (That's interesting. Thank you. I'm glad to know that.)
- Ask and Answer. Make conversation about FGQ commonplace. Initiate informal conversation by sharing what(ever) has recently made you feel good. Not all of these conversations need be about work or performance. In time and a sufficient percentage of times, they will. After sharing your FGQ item, always invite the other to share (I'd like to know what's made you feel good lately.) Thinking about one's FGQ brings focus to the feel-good. It's almost impossible to talk about something without thinking about it. (I said almost.) If your people think about feeling good, they will look for and create ways to feel good.
- Team the FGQ. Community motivates. Team(s) in your organization are mini-communities. Encourage your teams to recognize, discuss, and even publicize what makes them proud and so what makes team members feel good. Consider presentations or posters or skits or debates or poems or whatever works to communicate teams' FGQs. Appreciating the causes of team FGQ brings individuals' attention to their own FGQ. That ramps up an individual's FGQ. When I see my team feel good and ways I (can) contribute to that FGQ, my FGQ escalates.
Where did this come from? It was what I call a duh!scovery. Something so obvious I couldn't see it but had to learn it from someone else.
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Thanks for being engaged...and engaging me!
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